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1: Gee, Toto, I don't think we are in Kansas anymore
This chapter shows what sadomasochism is and what it is not. It details the difference
between SM and abuse, describes some of the basic SM terminology, and provides a
foundation for understanding SM.
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2: Sexual Magic
Here, you will learn how and why SM works. The fundamental principles of SM are; trust
and communication, talking about fantasies, dominance and submission, learning to arouse
your partner's body and mind and how to use anticipation. Advanced topics covered are;
conditioning, visualization, and sensory relocation.
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3: The Politics of Really Strange Bedfellows
This chapter help you form sensible SM relationships, avoid dangerous liaisons and
situations, and answers the following questions: What qualities should I look for in an SM
partner? Where does one find the perfect partner? How can I be sure I'm meeting someone
safe to play with? What is the etiquette in the SM scene?
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4: "You want to worship my WHAT???"
This chapter is devoted to negotiation. Everyone has unique roles, fantasies, and
expectations for their SM play. Successful players know how to negotiate with their
partners to provide a common ground prior to play. Negotiation can also help break the ice
in new relationships. Safewords and levels of power exchange are also discussed here and
there are samples of contracts and a pre-scene negotiation questionnaire.
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5: Straight Facts and Bent Phalluses
This chapter deals with sexual attitudes that work and that don't work in SM
relationships. Both male and female perspectives are considered and there are suggestions
for busting the barriers between the two.
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6: Non-Government Sanctioned Sex and Torture
This chapter describes advanced sexual techniques and practices including; anal play,
vaginal and penile sex toys, enemas, fisting, clips, clamps, and clothespins, fire and
ice, electro-torture, cutting, and some of the tricks that pull it all together.
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7: Get Them By the Balls; Their Hearts and Minds Will Follow
Here you will learn the basics of bondage; planning, bondage safety, ten basic rules of
bondage, and emergency quick release. There is also a suggested agenda for introducing a
novice to bondage.
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 Chapter 8: Of Humane Bondage
This chapter gets down to the nitty-gritty of bondage. Topics include; selecting rope,
finishing rope ends, knots, release, simple wrist and ankle bondage's, breast bondage, the
oriental rope dress, rope alternatives, gags, wrist and ankle cuffs, blindfolds, hoods,
and more.
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9: Philip's Philosophy of Phlogging Phun
Chapter nine discusses the philosophy of corporal "punishment". Topics
include; environment, positioning, mixing bondage with whipping, how to progress through a
corporal scene, Philip's Ten Commandments of Flagellation, marking, and preparing the
skin.
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10: When the Inner Child Deserves a Spanking
Chapter ten is a series of tutorials for various corporal techniques including; where
to, and not to, hit, spanking, paddling, face slapping, and flogging with the cat-style
whip. Also discussed are caning and cropping, and a tutorial on the bullwhip by noted
expert, Robert Dante.
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11: It's Only Pain, Dear, and It's Only Yours
Pain is the single most frightening aspect of SM play. Here we discuss why players use
it, how it works in lovemaking and the many facets of pain play including flying and
endorphin highs. Can pain really be translated to pleasure? Sure! Read how.
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12: Making the Upper Cheeks Red
Next to pain, embarrassment and humiliation are the two most difficult aspects of SM
play for the uninitiated to understand. How can these things possibly be erotic? Here we
discuss how players use embarrassment, anxiety, and humiliation to build up rather than
tear down, and how these techniques can lead to growth and self-discovery.
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13: Furnishing Your Dungeon
The last chapter shows you how to equip your play area whether you live in a castle, a
house, or an apartment. Shown here are the many types of whips, bondage, and sex gear sold
in fetish stores all over the world. But you needn't spend a fortune to be a deviant in
good standing, you'll read how to use common objects to enhance your play and you'll find
plans for SM toys that can be made at home.
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Glossary -Our glossary defines over 250 SM related terms.
Appendix A:- Clubs, Organizations, & BBS List
Appendix B: - Stores and Artisans
Our appendices contain contacts for over 650 SM related clubs, stores, computer BBS, and
literature.
Index : Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns is fully indexed for ease of
use as a reference.
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